|Sex & Intimacy / 5:53 PM - Wednesday January 15, 2014|
how long should you stay in a sexless marriage?
I have a problem with internet pornography and had lied about it to my wife a number of times. I have been working on my issues (12 step program, retreats and therapy); however, my wife and I have not had sex in 7 years. I can't even get my wife to hold my hand, rub my head, scratch my back without having to plead first (she used to do these things spontaneously). We have been married just over 13 years and have 1 one daughter and had an adopted daughter that we were not equipped to handle (due to mental issues) that we had to find a new family to raise her. I am just looking for some insight into how long I put the well being of my daughter ahead of my happiness. I have asked my wife to go to a retreat of wives of sex addicts and to go to therapy with and/or without me to no avail.
- Asked by Female, 36-45, Houston
Talk to your wife.
You disgust her and she has become totally TURNED OFF to you. And, I cannot blame her. Sex addicts are a creepy lot... they are.