|Dating / 10:03 AM - Monday November 29, 2010|
Why does he keep texting but not ask me out?
I met a man several weeks ago. We had two dates within the first week and I thought we had a great connection. We did not have sex. He knows I am interested and would like to see him again. He has continued to text and e-mail me, sometimes several times a day, yet says he has been too busy to go out. He said he was sorry and "promises" he will ask me out soon. He is recently separated and has 2 young children and I understand he is going through a lot. However, it's been over a month since I have seen him. I don;t know if he is sincere or just stringing me along. I'm very confused! Any feedback would be appreciated.
- Asked by Female, 46-55, Boston
Best case scenario - He really is super busy now. Maybe with work, family situation, etc.
Is it possible he's not really separated, but still with the wife? I would all of a sudden become busy yourself. Really, if he wanted to see you - he would have.