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If a guy asks a girl back to his apartment after a date and she accepts does he think less of her?
Dating / 7:30 PM - Monday August 16, 2010

If a guy asks a girl back to his apartment after a date and she accepts does he think less of her?

If a guy asks a girl back to his apartment after a date and she accepts do guys view her as easy, even if nothing physical happens? If a girl goes over to "hang out" (watch a movie, have a drink, talk, etc) but does not get physical will he lose interest and no longer view her as a romantic interest if she comes over?

- Asked by Female, 29-35

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- Response by duggers, A Guy Critical, Male, 66 or older

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if he asks her back, he wants sex.. if nothing happens he might not want to call again..
If you go back and have sex he got what he wanted. I seriously dont think its the way to go on a first date unless you are interested in just playing around and not being serious

- Response by lovesgoldens, Female, 36-45, Who Cares?

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If he thinks less of her for having sex with him....he's got issues . If he thinks less of her for hanging out with him...he's got issues. If he hangs out and doesn't like what he sees...or vice versa, well that's just the goes.

- Response by kalicalendar16, Female, 29-35

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It all depends on his agenda. And that agenda can be anywhere from truly wanting to spend quality time along with you to seeing if you'll take the lead and give up the sex to him. And only HE knows what his agenda is.

- Response by msadvise, Female, 46-55, Transportation

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I've talked to many men. They will always tell me that a guy isn't asking a woman back to his place after a date to "hang out, watch movie, drink, or talk." You might end up doing these things without getting physical. But, believe me that is the intention. I don't think the guy necessarily thinks less of the woman for agreeing to go to his house and this visit not end up with sex. But, I also think it would depend on how long you've been dating and what he feels he's investing (not necessarily just financially) in dating you. Some guys don't want to feel like they are just wasting time wining and dining a woman that isn't really interested in doing anything other than getting wined and dined. And, that's usually when they'll lose interest. IMO

- Response by thelovedovefor1, Female, 46-55, Atlanta, Who Cares?

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If the guy is a stand up man then going to his place and not having sex with him shows him she have more respect for herself. Going up to his apartment should not make him think of her as easy but if she had sexs with him then he might have the reason to think she is easy. As for the interst thing well not having sex should not affect his intrest in the girl and if it does then he is a player and his ego is way to inflated. The man that loses interest after no sex is not dating material.

- Response by mae102008, Female, 22-25

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If she comes over to his apartment, teases him (flirts) for a couple hours, and then goes home without any sex, he WILL think less of her. If you want to be a "romantic interest" you have to start by getting romantic.

- Response by greenwind, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 56-65, Construction

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The rule is that you do not go to a man's apartment (home) unless you ARE ready and do intend to have sex with them.

When you DO go there, it can go wrong for two different reasons:

1- He feels as though you led him on and then turned him down, so he is bitter.

2- You give it up and he then thinks you are EASY and will never call you again.

Either way, it goes in the toilet. This was a very bad idea.

- Response by randyl, Female, Who Cares?, Technical

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I he did he's an idiot. There's absolutely no rational reason for a guy to think less of a girl for going back to his place, when he invited her to begin with. Now if things didn't go well back his place then perhaps he may lose interest. But if he invited her just to see if she would as some sort of test, that's just dumb.

- Response by guy5432, A Mr. Married Guy, Male, 36-45, New York, Who Cares?

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