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What are some signs a guy's a player or just out for a piece of ass?
Dating / 3:48 AM - Saturday April 17, 2010

What are some signs a guy's a player or just out for a piece of ass?

What's the difference in behavior in a guy who's out to get some booty, versus a guy who really likes you? Guys' opinions especially welcome!

- Asked by Female, 29-35

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Being a player and being out just for a piece of ass are the same thing.

Usually that's what players do...they're only out for ass. The only way is to tell him that you don't have sex for at least several months because a guy that really cares and is not only looking for that will not be as concerned about it. The players are often the smooth talking party guys with the big sense of humor and they know that girls will often fall all over them for it.

- Response by richsifu, A Rebel, Male, 46-55, Science / Engineering

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Date him several dates without sex.If he stays around he is there for you.

- Response by frenchkiss49, Female, 56-65, Tampa, Who Cares?

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It can be hard to tell but as time goes on it will be revealed. Even the good guys still want ass so they can look like the player and the player will say things to look like the good guy cuz he knows that is what u want to hear. But sincerity cannot be faked so look for someone that shows a true interest in u, what ur interest r etc... Look for someone who may want some ass but is willing to wait a reasonable amount of time before he gets it. But u being selective will limit how many players u end up with.

- Response by aron77, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 36-45, Kansas City, Celebrity

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When a guy really likes you, you'll ignore him for being "too Nice".

- Response by chesterdad, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 56-65, San Francisco

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