|Dating / 7:49 PM - Monday November 16, 2009|
i can't stop thinking about him - and i need to know if he's thinking about me too...
i have known this guy since june. since then, he has become one of my best friends. we are together all the time, hanging out and everything. he makes me laugh and smile and i absolutely love being around him. there isnt a day that goes by that i dont think about him. i havent liked someone this much in a really, really long time.
- Asked by Female, 22-25
If you put yourself out there once more, do you think he'll run--that he'll stop being your friend? I don't think so -- not from the way you've described your relationship. Maybe you could say something like, "I told you some months ago how I feel about you. My feelings haven't changed. I hope that, if you ever feel the same way about me, you'll tell me. Nothing would make me happier." That's pretty generic; you're not asking him how he feels but asking if he'll tell you "someday." I think it would be okay to kiss him in a casual way if it's appropriate, or give him a hug. I think he needs to know that you understand his shyness and that you will accept his shyness as part of him -- and not push him.