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Could you be friends with someone who cheats with a married person?
Random & Fun / 12:36 AM - Monday November 02, 2009

Could you be friends with someone who cheats with a married person?

I have a friend like this. But, I find that I am having trouble with the friendship since I do not agree with what she is doing. I cannot stand hearing it. I just think it is one of the worst things you can do, is break up a family like that.
But, my question is....can I remain friends with her? Would you? Reasons....

- Asked by Female, 29-35

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i dont believe in that kinda of stuff so i dont think id be able to or if i was i whould just be telling them how it wasnt right.

- Response by karlkruger, A Creative, Male, 22-25, Los Angeles, Who Cares?

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I think it's wrong.......we told her so......she lost not only our friendship, but HER OWN husband and family when he found out...



- Response by zibet58, Female, 22-25, Los Angeles, Teaching

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I think its her life if you really have that much of a problem with it cut off the friendship

- Response by ghfan1207, Female, 22-25, Home Maker

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i think you can but has her friend you need to tell her what she is doing wrong. don't lose a good friend for something that has nothing to do with u but correct her. sometimes we do things and we don't notice it we need someone to tell us.eventhough in this situation she suppose to know on her own.

- Response by caramelpie23, Female, 22-25, Teaching

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sure as I try hard not to judge my friends

- Response by bigcurt, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 46-55, Pittsburgh, Self-Employed

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It depends on the relationship with the friend.
How many years you guys have been friends and what not.

Since she is your friend, have you talked about how you feel about her doing that?
If it really bugs you, and you do nothing, wouldn't that make you feel a bit low yourself?
Yet, it is her life, and there are upcoming troubles for her anyways.

Have you asked her if she loves the man, or its just about sex?
If it's love, then just let her do her thing and you do yours. If you cant stand hearing it, tell her to not mention anything of it.
If she's doing it for sex, then be a friend and tell her she could find a very nice single guy that would be only for her...you know??

- Response by lor017, Female, 18-21, Toronto, Student

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Yes, why not? If I really care for that friend, yes, I can remain friends.
Her private life is not my biz!
argie

- Response by argie, Female, Who Cares?, Who Cares?

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You could if you chose to but it is really up to you. If your not comfortable with it then leave the situation. It also depends on how deep your relationship is.

- Response by thicallover, Female, 29-35, New York, Administrative

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As shallow as most people are now days, everybody is already your friend, whether you know it or not.

- Response by buffersclone, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 46-55, Los Angeles, Managerial

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